The Visitor Has Left the Lobby
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Some of the people walking the floor at IPW this week are there to grow their destination. Some are there because they genuinely believe international tourism is about to rebound.
Some of the people walking the floor at IPW this week are there to grow their destination.
Some are there because they genuinely believe international tourism is about to rebound.
And some are there because they are running out of ideas.
Because for a growing number of destinations, IPW is no longer a growth strategy.
It’s a Hail Mary.
I’m outside the club this week.
As philosopher Chris Brown once said, “I don’t see how you can hate from outside of the club. You can’t even get in.”
Which feels especially relevant to tourism conferences.
This week, I'm outside the club. No badge. No laminated meeting schedule. No sponsored espresso from a destination whose tagline definitely contains the word “authentic.”
The view from out here is pretty good.
Because distance has a funny way of making systems easier to see.
For anyone outside tourism, IPW is the U.S. travel industry’s largest international trade show. Destinations, hotels, attractions, airlines, and tourism organizations gather in one place to meet with the international buyers and tour operators who package and sell America to the world.
The relationships built there move real money.
According to the U.S. Travel Association, the event drives billions in future inbound travel business.
I want to make sure you hear me: This event = important, big-money for inbound tourism.
Here’s what’s also true:
America used to run an international tourism trade surplus.
Now we’re running roughly a $50 billion travel trade deficit.
Which means when the industry keeps celebrating campaigns, impressions, partnerships, and booth swag…
…the actual scoreboard is flashing red.
And that’s the product sitting on the table this week.
Pressure.
This is not a drag of the specific event, but rather how events behave when we don't face tectonic change head-on.
Most of the people walking that floor genuinely believe in the work.
But some of the people there are also desperately searching for certainty in an industry that no longer behaves the way it used to.
I can’t even judge that.
When visitation softens, residents get hostile, elected officials panic, airline service gets shaky, budgets tighten, and your local economy depends on tourism tax revenue…
…of course people cling to the room.
The room still feels like hope.
But the room is not even the industry reality.
The room is only the part of the industry that can afford the room.
Now, while we're here talking about expensive conferences, let's pivot to the other rooms, as IPW is more direct sales.
Rooms that mostly talk to themselves eventually start mistaking consensus for truth.
You leave the keynote convinced the strategy is sound.
You leave the networking reception convinced the industry is aligned.
You leave the closing party thinking everyone is headed in the same direction.
Then you get home and residents are furious, local businesses feel disconnected, your workforce is burned out, and bookings still aren’t behaving the way the projections said they would.
And you genuinely cannot figure out why.
Because literally everyone you talked to at a legacy event thought things were... fine?
They think things are fine because the room was built to contain people who think things are fine.
That’s just psychology.
There’s a concept in behavioral science called self-serving bias.
It’s the tendency for humans to credit themselves for success while blaming outside circumstances for failure. I like to call that "The sun was in my eyes" syndrome.
Tourism may be the world champion of it.
Bad bookings? The economy.
Resident backlash? Misinformation.
Weak engagement? The algorithm.
Flat/declining international visitation? Too many excuses to list.
Never the strategy.
Never the structure.
Never the possibility that the room itself may be producing outdated thinking.
And before everybody gets their knickers in a knot (prob too late): this isn’t about bad people.
This is what happens when industries stop introducing friction into their decision-making.
A conference full of people who already agree with each other creates the illusion that everyone agrees with each other.
That illusion gets expensive.
Fast.
The broader system also profits from your dependence on it.
The associations collect the registration/booth fees.
The consultants sell the strategy.
The media people sell irrelevance...oops, I mean impressions.
The vendors sell the dashboards.
The research firms validate the findings.
And the destinations keep coming back, hoping this will be the year the graph stabilizes, and best practices stop being a moving target.
Tourism has become weirdly addicted to strategy theater.
More dashboards.
More panels.
More videos.
More “future of tourism” discussions moderated by the same five people talking to each other at the same conferences.
More decks designed to fix the outcomes created by the last set of decks.
More research confirming what residents have already been saying at public comment meetings for free for three years.
Meanwhile, some of the most important people shaping the visitor experience aren’t even in the room.
The STR hosts housing visitors in markets where short-term rentals now represent massive portions of lodging supply.
The residents absorbing the impact of tourism.
The small destinations watching from the sidelines trying to imitate organizations with ten times their budget and none of their constraints.
The frontline workers quietly leaving the industry altogether.
The room keeps discussing the future of tourism without inviting everyone already carrying it on their backs.
And then everybody wonders why the disconnect keeps growing.
One destination is bringing their STR hosts to IPW.
An actual PMG.
A host.
Someone who actually houses the visitors that the destination spends millions trying to attract.
And I can’t stop thinking about that.
Somewhere inside that organization, someone asked a radically different question before they packed their bags:
Who actually belongs in this room with us?
And then they did something about it.
That’s not a small thing.
That’s how industries change.
Not through another trend report. Not through another slogan. Not through another rebrand pretending to be transformation.
But by changing who gets invited into the conversation before the decisions get made.
False consensus only breaks when the room changes.
Echo chambers do not fix themselves.
Someone has to intentionally invite the person who sees the system differently.
Before the next strategic plan.
Before the next tourism summit.
Before the next campaign designed to convince the public that tourism matters…
Ask yourself a much harder question.
Who isn’t in your room?
Literally.
Who is shaping your destination every single day without ever being asked what they think?
Who absorbs the consequences of tourism growth without having a seat at the table where that growth gets planned?
Who would completely change the conversation if you simply brought them with you?
Because at some point, the industry is going to have to decide whether it wants validation…
…or actual perspective.
Those are not the same thing.
And one of them is getting very expensive.
You don’t need a bigger booth.
...You need a different guest list.
I’m Jenn Barbee. This week, I'm watching the industry from outside the club. Honestly? The view from out here made the room make a lot more sense.
Originally published on LinkedIn, May 2026. This is its home now.
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