I Accidentally Wrote 131 Articles About STRs and DMOs. Anyway, Here’s the Problem.
This started as a very innocent question. “When did I first start writing about short-term rentals?” So I pulled my archive, had GPT help sy…
The Lodging Desk
I just registered for a short-term rental conference. I did what you’re supposed to do. Clicked the official room block. Flag hotel. Conference rate. The grown-up choice.
I just registered for a short-term rental conference.
I did what you’re supposed to do. Clicked the official room block. Flag hotel. Conference rate. The grown-up choice. (also, isn't it wild that STR conferences are at flags?)
The rate was advertised at $269 a night plus taxes and fees.
Okay. Fine. That tracks.
Then I got to the checkout page.
Three nights. Same hotel. Same “conference rate.”
Total: $1,159.82.
I paused. Refreshed. Did the math again.
That comes out to $386 a night.
No warning. No explanation. No note saying, hey, this is about to jump.
Just a quiet expectation that I’d sigh and keep going.
I didn’t.
I closed the tab.
I opened Airbnb.
Ten minutes later, I booked an entire downtown loft. Walkable. More space. Kitchen. Light.
Total cost was about half of the hotel block.
Not half per night. Half total.
I did not feel rebellious. I felt practical.
And I know I’m not the only person who does this exact comparison every time a conference rolls around.
Here’s what’s interesting.
When destinations land conferences, they help with housing. They send RFPs. They coordinate blocks.
And almost every time, those RFPs go to hotels.
Hotels bid. Room blocks get built. Everyone nods and says housing is handled.
Meanwhile, short-term rentals are growing fast in those same markets. In some places, they are keeping pace with flag inventory.
And yet they are rarely treated as official conference housing.
Not planned for. Not coordinated. Not priced intentionally.
They just exist in the background while everyone pretends they’re incidental.
Even though everyone knows attendees are using them anyway.
In my case, the difference was more than $500.
That is not a rounding error.
That is airfare. That is an extra night added so someone stays through the closing session. That is breakfast, coffee, rideshares, tips, and a couple of meals that do not come from a national brand with a loyalty program.
That $500 does not vanish. It moves.
It moves through:
A locally owned restaurant that survives on conference weeks
A bar where the bartender actually lives in the neighborhood
A shop that depends on foot traffic
A host paying a mortgage, not a shareholder
That money circulates. It gets shared. It keeps places alive.
When a room block quietly balloons at checkout, that money gets trapped. It piles up in one place. It does not circulate.
And here’s the part that should really irritate people.
That extra money does not help the organizer. It does not strengthen the conference. It does not support the destination’s broader economy.
Attendees just quietly pay more or quietly opt out.
So the system ends up protecting the biggest brands in the room while squeezing everyone else. Organizers. Attendees. Local businesses.
All under the banner of “official.”
Hotels are treated as the official option. Short-term rentals are treated like a side effect.
But when the official option rings up at over eleven hundred dollars for three nights, people make a different choice. Quickly. Quietly. Without asking permission.
Then organizers look at the numbers later and say things like: Room block pickup was soft. People stayed farther away than expected. Attendance felt lighter.
Sure.
Or maybe the math just stopped working.
Room blocks were built for a different lodging world.
One where hotels dominated supply. One where prices behaved. One where the official option usually made sense.
That world changed. The process did not.
So now people are doing the rational thing, and the system treats it like a behavior issue instead of a signal.
Short-term rentals are already housing attendees. They are already shaping stays and spend. They are already part of the economy whether anyone plans for them or not.
Pretending otherwise just means the money moves without intention.
I’m Jenn Barbee, and I think about tourism systems for a living.
And once you see this, it is hard to unsee it.
Originally published on LinkedIn, Feb 2026. This is its home now.
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